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10. Hear the words, but note the action.

9. Keep your side of the street clean.

8. Love language matters. If they matter to you, know what their love language is.

7. Take nothing personally. Most of us are projecting our own shit on each other.

6. Don’t be distracted by the bullshit covered in fake grass.

5. Mindset is everything.

4. “Life is what happens while you’re busy making plans.”

3. Consistency is the most necessary ingredient.

2. “Speak only if it improves upon the silence.”

1. Be kind, be love, but have boundaries like a motherfucker!

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10. Nature speaks

9. Beauty is everywhere. Even in darkness.

8. Silence speaks louder than words.

7. Procrastination always catches up to us.

6. Loving someone can also be done from a distance.

5. Our insecurities can misinterpret anyone’s intention.

4. Never invite the outside world into intimate areas of life. Those should stay sacred.

3. Everyone we judge is our mirror.

2. Trust a person until they give you a reason not to.

1. When fear sets in, do it scared, and call on faith.

My Moon, My Star, My Son


I look at you, my shining star

such a beautiful soul you are.

So very proud to be your Mom,

My moon, my star, my beautiful son.

Although the years have gone fast,

I cherish all the memories from past.

But I am so excited to see

The young man you’ll grow up to be.

So very grateful for your life,

And how much better you have made mine.

I love you to infinity and beyond

My moon, my star, my beautiful son.

Celebrating 75….Grandma Wisdom.

1. “The top thing on my bucket list is…to have sex before I die.”
2. “Laughter is so important. Laugh at yourself, at each other. Laugh!”
3. “Enjoy people’s presence. Really enjoy them.”
4. “Have confidence in yourself. It’s the hardest thing for a woman, but don’t “think” you are beautiful. Know you are beautiful!”
5. “Family is the most important. Your family will always be there when you need them.”
6. “Be friends with your parents. When my mother was sick, she would do the funniest things and we would laugh. That felt good!”
7. “Be careful what you pray for”
8.”Do everything in moderation. Throw a magic mike movie in there…it was amazing! I was squeezing my coke so hard the top popped off and soda went everywhere.”
9. “Pick your battles. Don’t stay angry”
10. “Jealousy is poison. I spent a lot of my married life being that. Made things worse and it was a waste of good time.”
11. “Get up when you get knocked down. Meet it head on. Sometimes challenges are blessings in disguise.”
12.”Now that I’m 75, I know I’m lucky to be here. I know I’m lucky to have my health, but it’s scary now. Another year closer to mortality. You start to wonder how it will all end.”